Saturday, July 31, 2010
Modeling her new skirt that Auntie Jennifer made!!
We Haston's are employed!
We wrapped up a great week! Scott was offered a position with The Handyman Connection on Wednesday and started work on Thursday. He has done 2 jobs for the company and so far so good. He 'volunteered' to work this Saturday too! He is doing home improvement jobs and gets to set his own schedule. Right now he is getting smaller jobs until they get to know him, so he's taking as many as he can right now to get the smaller ones out of the way. I received my 2nd job offer on Friday! I'm so happy with the position and the compensation package they offered me. I have a great feeling about the opportunity they are offering. The company is The Tennessean, its the largest newspaper in TN. I'll be working for the Media Group side, handling strategic marketing for their key accounts. My office will be in downtown Nashville. I am really excited and happy to have a job after being here less than 3 weeks! Both offers were good and the companies are great as well. I knew right away which one I wanted after both offers came in. I started interviewing with The Tennessean in June over the phone in California. They put me through a rigorous interview process, but I persevered and stuck with it. I had several phone interviews and then when I arrived in TN I met with 7 different managers before I received my offer. The hiring manager said she knew she wanted me, but just wasn't sure where! In fact I didn't get the job I originally started interviewing for. I have really enjoyed everyone there I have met and I can't wait to start. I was a little nervous at first about being in the city, but now I think its another piece to this adventure. I was especially scared when I had to deal with parking but it worked out!
Last night Scott and I went out to celebrate our new jobs and we went with my new friend Maggie! I just love her! Its so nice to already have a girlfriend... We also went with Scott's long time friend from high school. A double date if ya will. Let's see if we have match making skills. It was a blind date for Maggie. Even if there isn't a romantic connection, we all had a great time. We started out at dinner. It was a great dinner, you know the kind where ya take a long time to order and just soak up the atmosphere and the great conversation... We had FUN! After dinner we went back to Scott's friends house and sat outside on the porch! LOL, I know!! So Southern. It was a beautiful night, I was NOT cold at all. Which is amazing, to be outside and not cold! I love it! His house was set up back against the trees so we had an incredible view. Now we could hear some strange sound the entire time, but Scott said not to worry that it was just bugs!! EEK!! We lit lots of candles and of course sprayed, so hopefully I didn't get attacked too bad.
Not sure what are plan is for this weekend, but I'm sure we'll get out and explore some more. We have a lot to see. Plus, I like to stay busy. For all those who are worried about me being home sick, don't. Of course I miss my family, but I've adjusted. I'm so excited about this job! Its going to be great! I got a large package from my parents and sister in the mail this week, which was a lovely care package. Charlie Mae has her 1st day of preschool on Tuesday of next week. She is so excited and this will help her make friends as well. Scott and I are really excited about the changes taking place and the adventures we are about to embark on.
Thanks for reading about our transitional phase of our journey... More of this experiment to follow.
Sarah
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Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
A taste of the south.
I picked up a map of TN the very next day after I arrived, that highlighted historic sites. I've carried it with me every time I've left the house. I've been here 2 and 1/2 weeks now and I've finally enjoyed my first historic site! Scott and I decided to head on to Murfreesborro, which is about 45 minutes away. Its a very unique town that is home to Middle TN State College and the proud home of site #47!! Stones River National Battlefield. YEP! That's right! I went to a Civil War battlefield site! It was awesome... This girl is more than a pretty face, LOL! I love history and State Parks! Our fist stop was the Stones River Memorial. I thought it was incredible. It was neat to read that its the oldest & only memorial that was built by actual civil war soldiers. It was actually erected only 6 months after the famous battle. Funny story about this short self guided tour... We were the only ones there and did it in shifts. What I mean by that is I went first and Scott waited in his truck with the AC on with Charlie who was sound asleep! Then after I got back, he went. 'Never wake a sleeping baby' Ha! Addison stayed home w/her Nana (Scott's) mom. It was a sight to see. Next we went to the National cemetery and from there we went to the museum. We learned all about the particulars of the battle. It was really neat for me personally to soak up some history. My husband is very proud of where he grew up and where we live now. So for me to hear words like 'along the Cumberland' and the 'Nashville Pike' then to see pictures of the Nashville Union Station, which is still in tact today was just awesome. Driving through TN is amazing in itself... From green hills, and fields spread out for miles with random old barns, that have beauty in their own right, to huge brick mansions with amazing columns. This time my eyes see, several large civil war cannons in the field as we drive by. My heart was truly overwhelmed. War is and always has been uniquely intense for me. I know its a heavy subject for everyone and we all have our own views, for me its personal. My grandfather was in WWII, my father was out to sea during the Persian Gulf and in college my Political Science Thesis was on 'combat compliance'. Americans killing Americans, fighting for a personal belief, a way of life that they believed with all their heart was right, and the only way. To walk out into that battlefield and see the cedar tree's, the trenches between the rocks and the open field, knowing that each side was only 100 yards apart, 1 football field length away from death as they bedded down, the night before battle. The view was amazing and I left with a heavy heart. At one point during our self guided tour, we walked out into the woods. Real woods! I saw bugs, heard bugs and felt bugs. I don't think I will ever forget the sound, smell and images that were just put in my head from the historic reenactment video I had just watched and then to be standing out in the middle of it. Seeing the abandoned artillery, seeing the oddly shaped rocks that had been altered from being struck during battle. I was so overwhelmed that I actually had a panic attack in the woods. I began to sweat, my head started to spin, I heard sounds, voices, & gunfire. I saw smoke in the air, blood on the rocks and I smelled death. As I spun in a circled I called for Scott, he was way off in the distance. He took off away from the path, I lost all focus and I knew my face was a pale white as my knees began to buckle. I took off to head back to the truck. I just had to get out of there. My mind was just too out of control. I was scared, overwhelmed with fear. I of course expressed that it was a simple problem of dehydration. I get 'sun sick' a lot and always have to drink water while I'm outside. Scott blamed in on the fact that I was in the woods in a white sun dress and flip flops! Yes, I am a true Californian...
We also went to a State park today called 'Cedars of Lebanon' this is a beautiful sight as well. Tall, old, green cedar trees as far as the eyes can see. Amazing sights, I've never seen anything like that before. They have, campsites, cabins for rent, a large swimming pool and an awesome play area for the kids. We also saw a huge horse stables that had horses available for ride. We decided to go back and ride the horses, one day... I've only rode a horse once before when I was a young girl. My best friend growing up in 29 Palms had horses and I was always too nervous. My brother and sister in law have a horse too and believe it or not for about 3 years now, I've wanted to ask if I could go for a ride and learn!! I just never had the courage to ask... I am excited about going riding with Scott though. I know it will be fun to learn something with him. Well he knows how, but I know I will really enjoy learning and experiencing something new with him.
It was fun to spend the day with Charlie too. She really enjoyed herself. Our lives are about to go through some more changes and we are all going to get super busy as well. I'm sure we will both be going to work full time really soon. Scott's interview went awesome yesterday and they are checking his references. I'm going back for another interview with one company tomorrow and I already have received one offer. Charlie Mae will be starting preschool on Tuesday! She will be going M-F from 8-12. She is so excited about school. When we went and met with the director and took a tour she charmed her way in and just loved the atmosphere. She has asked to go back everyday since. It will be such an adjustment taking her somewhere, but I know that she will love it. As for Addison, we haven't found a day care place for her yet. I have a few more places that I'd like to check out before I make a decision. I'm just overwhelmed with the whole idea of day care. Trust me I understand the concept of I have to do what I have to do, but still its difficult. I stayed home with Charlie until she was 2. Addison is 6 months old. And I honestly haven't wrapped my brain around it yet. I guess I'll cross that bridge once I get a job and go to work. Addison is doing very well. She is trying really hard to crawl. She gets her tummy & but off the ground but moves backwards as she so happily kicks those legs. She has an amazing, beautiful smile. When she smiles her blue eyes just light up her whole face. And she has the cutest dimple that sits so high on her cheek. She sits so tall and stable now too. She couldn't sit when we got to TN, but now she'll sit and play with her toys and even reach and pick ones up that are around her. She is happy all the time and will go to anyone. Charlie is adjusting well. She is very loving towards her sister and still always wants to help me when it comes to her. She loves holding her, is always talking to her and wants to play. Addison just smiles and laughs!
Even though I am having a blast, making new friends, and have a lot going for me, I've been very home sick this week. I really missed being with my family on Charlie's birthday. It was so hard for me. Normally I'm only an hour and 20 minutes away from my mom and sister, but not anymore. Also, it marked 4 months since the passing of my grandma. I think about her often and miss her so much. She just had an amazing way of making me feel good about myself and always showed me that there were many views to look at each situation. She was an amazing person who impacted my life so much and I just get sad when I think that I can't hear her voice as I know she would know exactly what to say. There are so many changes and adjustments going on for my family all at once. The weather is so tough on me... Oh and the bugs. I don't know what it is but I'm constantly being bitten and I'm having some sort of reaction to the bites. I know, I know stop complaining already! But hey its my blog! Also, I'm not sleeping well so I'm cranky! Too cranky for Scott, ha! I just keep telling myself it will all get better when I get a job. When I feel like I'm a part of something I'll be ok.. I'm on my 5th interview with this company tomorrow morning! So hopefully I'll get an offer soon. Wish me luck!!
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Saturday, July 24, 2010
Happy Birthday Charlie Mae!
Wow! Charlie Mae is 3 years old... well tomorrow anyways! We had a great party at the park today. Charlie was a true princess. She wore her Snow White dress at the beginning of the day, but it wasn't too long before she switched to her Little Mermaid bathing suit. It was a hot hot day! I'm sure it was 100 degrees outside. In fact Lebanon was in a heat advisory warning for how hot it was and it was recommended for us to stay inside. The party started off slow when we had to move the entire party because I set up at the wrong pavilion. I know! Such a Sarah move... I guess I just didn't look at the sign that said "pavillion 1". We were supposed to be at pavillion "2". It was a funny sight carrying pink and purple balloons, princess party signs, all the food, coolers and party supplies across the park to another pavillion. Of course the security guard made plenty of jokes about how it must have been a women who went to the wrong area. Oh well. Once we got situated we started cooking and had a fabulous time. Charlie Mae really enjoyed herself. She made some new friends and had a blast with her cousins! The kids were able to play in the water park and run up and down the castle playground! She loved her Snow White ice cream cake although she didn't scarf it down like she does her Uncle Brett's cakes! She opened some really cute gifts and was so funny as she "read" each card. Then after all her gifts were open her Papa took her over to where her new purple and pink disney princess bike was! Oh did she love it... she got right on it and just started peddling away like she knew what she was doing! Obviously she has her mother's coordination! Ha! We all had a really good time! I am grateful that we were able to put together such a great party on such short notice and that she was able to make new friends. It was hard for me to not have my family there as I know they would have liked to be a part of it, but hey that's what this adventure is all about. Trying new things and exploring the unknown. It definitely is different to not be close to family. I am learning a lot about myself, my true likes and dislikes. Also, I would say I am more brave than I ever anticipated I would be. I didn't realize how much courage I had in me, or how strong of a mother I am. My kids truly do come first.
Scott and I went out on Thursday night for drinks and were able to sit down and have a grown up conversation. It was the first time we had time together in I can't remember how long. Things have just been so crazy with packing and moving and unpacking. Janette and Ernie watched the girls and even though we were only gone for an hour it was a great hour. We really enjoyed being just Scott and Sarah again. Scott has been able to reconnect with some old friends which is fantastic and he is really enjoying catching up. I on the other hand have made some new friends. In fact we went out last night with someone that I have really made a connection with. Friday actually was an over all great day. We got up early and went for a drive down to Franklin. I was able to have Starbucks! Plus, we went to a mall. A real mall. ohhhh it was nice. Made me feel right at home! Then we came home and went out to dinner with my new friends and out after that for cocktails. We went to a local hang out called "the bull and whistle" It wasn't very crowded and they had a live singer. I of coursed introduced myself oh so gracefully when I requested Neil Diamond and Wham. These are not BIG hits in Lebanon. The singers name was "PORK" and he was proud to play Scott's requests of George Strait and Johnny Cash. Go figure!
All and all I would say we are having a good time. Scott is going out on an interview on Monday for a job! That is very exciting! I'm optimistic that I'll get an offer here next week. Good things are happening for this Haston family and we are enjoying our journey so far! MINUS the fact that my body is red and swollen because I am under attack! I am not sure what is eating me, but it is awful. I am covered from head to toe in awful bites that I am just having a reaction too. Everytime I turn the corner I can hear my husband and his parents talking about how awful they look and what is it?? Yes, I am the only one who is getting eaten alive slowly...
Scott and I went out on Thursday night for drinks and were able to sit down and have a grown up conversation. It was the first time we had time together in I can't remember how long. Things have just been so crazy with packing and moving and unpacking. Janette and Ernie watched the girls and even though we were only gone for an hour it was a great hour. We really enjoyed being just Scott and Sarah again. Scott has been able to reconnect with some old friends which is fantastic and he is really enjoying catching up. I on the other hand have made some new friends. In fact we went out last night with someone that I have really made a connection with. Friday actually was an over all great day. We got up early and went for a drive down to Franklin. I was able to have Starbucks! Plus, we went to a mall. A real mall. ohhhh it was nice. Made me feel right at home! Then we came home and went out to dinner with my new friends and out after that for cocktails. We went to a local hang out called "the bull and whistle" It wasn't very crowded and they had a live singer. I of coursed introduced myself oh so gracefully when I requested Neil Diamond and Wham. These are not BIG hits in Lebanon. The singers name was "PORK" and he was proud to play Scott's requests of George Strait and Johnny Cash. Go figure!
All and all I would say we are having a good time. Scott is going out on an interview on Monday for a job! That is very exciting! I'm optimistic that I'll get an offer here next week. Good things are happening for this Haston family and we are enjoying our journey so far! MINUS the fact that my body is red and swollen because I am under attack! I am not sure what is eating me, but it is awful. I am covered from head to toe in awful bites that I am just having a reaction too. Everytime I turn the corner I can hear my husband and his parents talking about how awful they look and what is it?? Yes, I am the only one who is getting eaten alive slowly...
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
In the hunt...
I thought I would use the word 'hunt' for many reasons tonight... Yes, this is after all Tennessee and this use to be vegetarian was raised by a big time hunter and the man I love is a hunter as well. I myself am hunting down a career. Yesterday I had 3 1 hour interviews at The Tennessean with 3 different managers. It was a difficult interview process with mostly situational questions. I will not bore you with the details, however I will say I am very excited about the opportunity and feel it would be an awesome career. I left feeling very pumped and positive. They want to fill the position right away so I'm hoping to hear back soon. I was told this evening that one of my references was called as well and that is very encouraging!! This means, I'm in the hunt! Ha! Now let's all think positive!! I have another job interview tomorrow, Thursday with a company called Welcome Wagon. This would be a Direct Mail advertising job, which just happens to be my specialty. My interview is at 'Dunken Donuts'!! LOL there is NO Starbucks here and 'Java Joes is having a baby!' Now I don't know what that means, that is just what I was told. Now let's all think positive!! Maybe I'll have choices!
Today was my first day on my own in Lebanon. It was interesting, it had some highs and lows. Today for the first time it truly sunk in that I have moved to TN. I am not on vacation and I don't have a plan to go home. I took the girls out to not only learn my way around but to look at some preschools for Charlie Mae and a day care for Addison. Again I was on a hunt... I was real pleased with the preschool I found. Everyone I met was so nice, the classroom looked great, she will be with only 3 year olds and will have now more than 8 in her class. She of course charmed them and is super excited about going. I talked on the phone with a day care facility for Addison but I never could find the place. I had a garmin, but just didn't see it. In fact I still don't know my way around at all. I do not get the lay out of the city and it seems like I'm always on 1 of 3 streets, but I don't realize how they all connect. After we got lost we stumbled onto Baskin Robbins, so I ordered Charlie Mae's Snow White birthday cake. She is so excited!! They didn't have a Snow White cake, but they had other princess cakes, however me being the sales person I am asked for what I wanted and it worked out! Yeah me!! Funny though, while we were in Baskin Robbins it began to pour outside, I mean rain. Real rain. - kept thinking what the heck!! Of course, I am out in this. I managed fine though. I followed my own safety course and just avoided it. I sat and waited it out!! I know that sounds silly, but it worked best for me and the girls...
This felt good having a win coming off of Addison's burn. Her blister popped today, OUCH! I guess that means she is getting better though. She is amazing to me. She is sitting so well and playing. I got some great pictures of her today!!
Scott was able to work today which is nice. He painted a dining room and hung up a light. This is why I was by myself. For the most part it worked out. I am covered from head to toe in nasty bug bites, I mean nasty. The crazy part is I am hardly outside. Its ridiculous! My Father in Law bought me some 'off' today. I hope it helps! Its frustrating to say the least. I itch and I'm swelling up. The red spots on me are gigantic!!! I will not get discourage though... I am staying as positive as I can. I do miss everyone. Its funny how we all text and email so much I didn't realize how much I missed everyone until I heard a familiar voice on the phone today. Our conversation was brief & at the time I thought too brief, but now I know I probably would have just broke down. It doesn't matter how busy I am or how happy I am, there are just some people I'm always going to miss. Its just the idea that I can't hop in my car and head on over for 'the best chicken on the grill I've ever had' or scrapbook and talk with my sister, watch 'the young & the restless' with my mom, watch Charlie and Maryam go at it... Wow, I miss and love you all!
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Monday, July 19, 2010
A case of the Mondays...
Just kidding we all had a great and productive Monday. Scott is starting a painting job on Wednesday so he went and got all set up for that today. He has several strong job leads and talked to a few people today. Two in which he should be able to meet up with tomorrow and he met with a company today that would be an excellent job installing cabinets. He is hoping to interview with them next week! That job in particular he is very excited about and is feeling good vibes... Now let's all think happy thoughts!
I had a call back today from a phone interview I had last week, so that's encouraging. Hoping to have the next round this week! I have 3 rounds of interviews set up for tomorrow in Nashville. I will have 3 1 hour interviews with 3 managers. I'm hoping to leave tomorrow with a solid job offer. Also last week I applied for a true 'dream job'. My hopes are high and I'm focusing really hard, doing some major networking so that I can land an awesome career. I really want to be the best I can be. I have many dreams that I plan on following. I truly want to make a difference in this world and I believe I can add value to someone's day and gosh darn it, that's what I plan on doing. I have spent a lot of energy concentrating on a plan to get where I want to be and I've been meeting the right people to help me with the steps to get there. Yes, I am excited and I hope you pick up on that! This stoic will succeed!
I spent most of my day today planning Charlie Mae's birthday party. I just can't believe my sweet little girl is going to be 3. Time, that's an amazing concept. We are having a princess theme party at a local park. This park in incredible. We reserved a shaded spot under a pavilion that has a grill so we will be 'cooking out.' The spot is next to one of the play areas that is a huge castle! Also we are close to the sprinkler water play area, which she loves. There is a large sand box, and many swings too. She is so excited that her cousins are coming and some new friends. I am so happy that friends and family are able to make it on such short notice. Charlie is so excited and she wants to wear her Snow White dress and her cousins and friends plan on wearing princess dresses too! I will make sure to post some pictures! All Charlie can talk about is the cake! The girl loves her cake!! Hahaha!! She also wants party hats! She said today 'you can't have a party with out party hats!' Which is funny because I don't think she's even been to a party where there were hats!
Addison is doing great too! She is sleeping so well. The last 3 nights she has only awoke once to eat and Scott has been putting her back to sleep in the middle of the night. She is sitting up and playing a lot. She is developing right along. She is getting really good at grabbing things and she is fast. In fact, too fast! I was cooking yesterday while I was holding her and she reached over and grabbed a pot on the stove. It was awful. Her tiny little hand blistered up pretty fast. Today it looked awful. Oh man do I feel so bad. Talk about messing up. It was all my fault. I was just doing too much at one time. I learned my lesson for sure. Addison is a trooper though. She is tough. Such a happy baby! She smiles all the time and just loves everyone. She is a real pleasure. Her and Charlie are so cute together too! They just love on each other, they are so fun to watch. And no one can make Addison laugh like Charlie does, she gets a real kick out of her big sister!
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I had a call back today from a phone interview I had last week, so that's encouraging. Hoping to have the next round this week! I have 3 rounds of interviews set up for tomorrow in Nashville. I will have 3 1 hour interviews with 3 managers. I'm hoping to leave tomorrow with a solid job offer. Also last week I applied for a true 'dream job'. My hopes are high and I'm focusing really hard, doing some major networking so that I can land an awesome career. I really want to be the best I can be. I have many dreams that I plan on following. I truly want to make a difference in this world and I believe I can add value to someone's day and gosh darn it, that's what I plan on doing. I have spent a lot of energy concentrating on a plan to get where I want to be and I've been meeting the right people to help me with the steps to get there. Yes, I am excited and I hope you pick up on that! This stoic will succeed!
I spent most of my day today planning Charlie Mae's birthday party. I just can't believe my sweet little girl is going to be 3. Time, that's an amazing concept. We are having a princess theme party at a local park. This park in incredible. We reserved a shaded spot under a pavilion that has a grill so we will be 'cooking out.' The spot is next to one of the play areas that is a huge castle! Also we are close to the sprinkler water play area, which she loves. There is a large sand box, and many swings too. She is so excited that her cousins are coming and some new friends. I am so happy that friends and family are able to make it on such short notice. Charlie is so excited and she wants to wear her Snow White dress and her cousins and friends plan on wearing princess dresses too! I will make sure to post some pictures! All Charlie can talk about is the cake! The girl loves her cake!! Hahaha!! She also wants party hats! She said today 'you can't have a party with out party hats!' Which is funny because I don't think she's even been to a party where there were hats!
Addison is doing great too! She is sleeping so well. The last 3 nights she has only awoke once to eat and Scott has been putting her back to sleep in the middle of the night. She is sitting up and playing a lot. She is developing right along. She is getting really good at grabbing things and she is fast. In fact, too fast! I was cooking yesterday while I was holding her and she reached over and grabbed a pot on the stove. It was awful. Her tiny little hand blistered up pretty fast. Today it looked awful. Oh man do I feel so bad. Talk about messing up. It was all my fault. I was just doing too much at one time. I learned my lesson for sure. Addison is a trooper though. She is tough. Such a happy baby! She smiles all the time and just loves everyone. She is a real pleasure. Her and Charlie are so cute together too! They just love on each other, they are so fun to watch. And no one can make Addison laugh like Charlie does, she gets a real kick out of her big sister!
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Saturday, July 17, 2010
Getting to know more Haston's...
Today we took a very scenic drive to the towns of Cookville and Sparta to visit with Scott's family. We had about an hour and a half drive of nothing but beautiful green trees, rolling hills, crossing over flowing rivers and even over a bridge with an amazing view of a lake. The scenery took my breath away as we would pass large, older houses... Each one we passed had more character than the last. Most had beautiful wooden rocking chairs on their front porch and we would even pass families who were out rocking and enjoying the beautiful day. We would pass bill boards that would make me laugh, mostly because they would remind me I am far from home. One in particular read 'if you died today, where would you spend eternity?' I also chuckled to myself as we would pass safety colored orange mailboxes... GO VOLS! Ha Ha! As we got off at our exit for our first stop we came to a street called 'ditty'. The street was incredible. Small and narrow, of course, but just green as far as the eye could see. We saw soy bean fields, huge barns, both old and new. Each one was just beautiful, I felt like an old story I had read was just coming alive before my eyes. The sound was also something I'd never heard before... It was silence, pure silence. As we pull up to 'Uncle Kenneth's' house we pull in right besides a LARGE corn field. I was amazed. I truly had never seen a corn field before. My city brain was amazed. I had never thought about and could not grasp that these beautiful ears of corn are what I buy in a grocery store. The whole process just ran through my brain. I seriously thought it was awesome. In front of the corn field was a huge honeysuckle bush that was covered with the largest butterflies I had ever seen. Truly beautiful and they were just fluttering all around, there was probably over 50 just hovering over this one bush. The view was surreal... We had a nice visit with Scott's Uncle and he enjoyed meeting Charlie Mae. He showed her his fish and showed off his pet trick as well! Papa, caught a grasshopper and Charlie was able to get a close look at that too. I stayed back of course, but encouraged her to explore. Papa talked about his huge 'antlers' but I think he meant antennas! Ha!
Our next stop was just a short drive a few miles down the road. Next visit was Aunt Caroline, Ernie's sister. Charlie Mae had a blast there. She was able to see a pony, chickens, and even let a goat nibble on her! Plus, she watched Caroline gather up a few eggs. Aunt Caroline also let Charlie Mae take pictures with her camera and little Charlie Mae loves to take pictures!! As we left Aunt Caroline's Charlie asked if she could go 'visit cousins with kids!' I guess she was ready to meet her new friends!
We still had one more stop before we got to cousins with kids! We went and saw Scott's cousin Josh and his wife Dana. They were a lot of fun. They are close in age to me and Scott and don't have any kids yet. They have a beautiful house that is going to be a cool spot for us to hang out (pool table in the garage cool). Ha! Scott of course talked about fishing and let Josh know he is anxious to go! I'm sure they will be out on a lake soon! It was very comforting to be with family, also to see the joy on my husbands face. He hadn't seen this side of his family in five years! That's a long time. He really missed them and thanks to 'facebook' we all knew what was going on in each others lives. It was comforting for me to be able to have conversation and be welcomed so warmly since my family is so far away.
Final stop... Aunt Jeans! Oh we had a blast here! Another beautiful view, corn fields, cow pastures, large green trees, beautiful house. Jean is Ernie's other sister and she is married to Uncle Richard. They have 2 kids and 4 grandkids! There was so many toys for Charlie to play with and an awesome swing set for her to play on outside. Scott's cousins Richie & Tanya showed up with their 2 girls, Molly and Emma. The 3 girls had so much fun playing. They all hugged and kissed and just had a wonderful time. They talked about what they like to do, play dress up, tea party and everything Disney Princess! It was too cute! They also talked about Charlie's birthday next week and screamed when they heard they'd be together. When it was time for them to say goodbye Charlie and Molly hugged and kissed and then Molly picked a flower for Charlie to take with her. I sure thought it was funny how we all knew each other and it came out just how well we knew each other in conversation! We made jokes about Tanya always being late & losing her phone(s)! They knew right away I was not a bug fan and was strict on Charlie's diet. We all really had a lot of fun! As a mother I was proud that Charlie could interact so well with new friends and that she knew right away there was a lot of love in the room and that she was with family. To me family is so important. I have a large family and have always lived so close to them, so spending time with Scott's family today put joy in my heart. It was great to see how much they already loved both Charlie and Addison. Everyone had fun with Addison too. She went to everyone and just smiled the whole time. She really is a sweet baby!
We came home a different way than we went. Both of the girls slept the whole way home which was nice. We passed through a historic town called 'Watertown' it was a very small town. Population 1600. I felt like I was on the back lot of universal studios! It was just so funny. Don't get me wrong, I thought it was neat! Very old, and so much character. Just unique, I could tell a lot of things had been filmed out there. Classic southern, small country time feel! It was awesome!
I'm starting to notice so many things that are different that one would never think about. For example: toilet seat covers! I have not been to one place that has had them! Ice tea!! I have to say 'unsweetened' or I will get brown sugar water! I went into the bank on Friday at 5pm and I didn't wait in line! When our car broke down Scott waited 4 hours for a tow! The AC comes out of the floor. Oh and the mexican food is tasteless! The portion sizes at restaurants are twice as big as to what I am use too. The pace is slow, no one is in a hurry! Those are just a few different things that I thought I'd share...
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Friday, July 16, 2010
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Ventured out...
Today was another great day! I took the girls out for a drive around Lebanon all by ourselves! We went to 'the square' and picked up some maps of different tours so we can plan some trips to historical sights. I also picked up an art magazine so I can dive into the different cultural events in Nashville. I would like to see as much as I can before I get busy with work.
Speaking of work... I have a job interview set up with The Tennesseean, which is a newspaper, on Tuesday. I started interviewing with them in California and they were anxious to see me when I arrived in TN. I will be meeting with 3 hiring managers so wish me luck! I have a few more leads that I'm still working on as well. I'm even calling on one of my old automotive contacts. We shall see!
We went to Nashville tonight to see Scott's good friend John Ray and his wife Tamara. We had a wonderful time. This is Scott's best friend while growing up in Lebanon and they have managed to stay in touch all these years. In fact they came out to our wedding in San Diego and we went to theirs in DC. They have a little boy who will be 1 years old on the 27th. We are going to his birthday party next weekend. They have an amazing house right there in the heart of Nashville. Its gorgeous and is over 100 years old, it has so much character. The house has been renovated but they have a bit more they would like to do. It looks like Scott will be helping them with that too!
The only negative about today is our car broke down on the way home! We had to pull off the road around 9 and Scott did not get home until 1:30am. He had trouble getting a tow truck to come and get him. Ernie came and picked up me and the girls while Scott waited for a tow truck. Some liquid just started spewing out of the engine. I'm just grateful we made it home safe and that this didn't happen while Scott & Nat were driving across country! I am determined to believe that our luck is going to change.
Charlie and Addison are both adjusting well. In fact they both slept great last night and I think we are all finally eating again. That's important. Well to me anyways! I'm so cranky when I'm hungry. Ha! Ha! I'm going to be cooking dinner, mainly for selfish reasons, I'd like to eat what I want! Ha! Its going to be fun learning to prepare new meals and explore the kitchen. I'm starting to notice what I'm going to miss as I realize I'm not on vacation. Its funny how keeping your toothbrush on a counter or in a drawer makes you feel different than keeping it in a ditty bag. Its too soon for me to be home sick but I have done a lot of thinking lately about who I am what path I will take. Moving to Tennessee wasn't as easy as I thought it would be. There are many people that I miss. I haven't 'thought' too much about my sister because if I do, I know I'll cry. My nephew is having surgery today and the thought of being so far away is killing me. I have always been a short car ride away from my family.
As far as Tennessee in general goes... Its beautiful. The weather is crazy, the food is unhealthy, but everyone I have met has been so nice! This weekend we plan to head out to visit some of Scott's relatives that he hasn't seen in 5 years! Some of his cousins are our age and have little kids as well. We are looking forward to getting to know everyone again. Here are some pictures of our condo as well. Hope everyone is enjoying our story.
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Speaking of work... I have a job interview set up with The Tennesseean, which is a newspaper, on Tuesday. I started interviewing with them in California and they were anxious to see me when I arrived in TN. I will be meeting with 3 hiring managers so wish me luck! I have a few more leads that I'm still working on as well. I'm even calling on one of my old automotive contacts. We shall see!
We went to Nashville tonight to see Scott's good friend John Ray and his wife Tamara. We had a wonderful time. This is Scott's best friend while growing up in Lebanon and they have managed to stay in touch all these years. In fact they came out to our wedding in San Diego and we went to theirs in DC. They have a little boy who will be 1 years old on the 27th. We are going to his birthday party next weekend. They have an amazing house right there in the heart of Nashville. Its gorgeous and is over 100 years old, it has so much character. The house has been renovated but they have a bit more they would like to do. It looks like Scott will be helping them with that too!
The only negative about today is our car broke down on the way home! We had to pull off the road around 9 and Scott did not get home until 1:30am. He had trouble getting a tow truck to come and get him. Ernie came and picked up me and the girls while Scott waited for a tow truck. Some liquid just started spewing out of the engine. I'm just grateful we made it home safe and that this didn't happen while Scott & Nat were driving across country! I am determined to believe that our luck is going to change.
Charlie and Addison are both adjusting well. In fact they both slept great last night and I think we are all finally eating again. That's important. Well to me anyways! I'm so cranky when I'm hungry. Ha! Ha! I'm going to be cooking dinner, mainly for selfish reasons, I'd like to eat what I want! Ha! Its going to be fun learning to prepare new meals and explore the kitchen. I'm starting to notice what I'm going to miss as I realize I'm not on vacation. Its funny how keeping your toothbrush on a counter or in a drawer makes you feel different than keeping it in a ditty bag. Its too soon for me to be home sick but I have done a lot of thinking lately about who I am what path I will take. Moving to Tennessee wasn't as easy as I thought it would be. There are many people that I miss. I haven't 'thought' too much about my sister because if I do, I know I'll cry. My nephew is having surgery today and the thought of being so far away is killing me. I have always been a short car ride away from my family.
As far as Tennessee in general goes... Its beautiful. The weather is crazy, the food is unhealthy, but everyone I have met has been so nice! This weekend we plan to head out to visit some of Scott's relatives that he hasn't seen in 5 years! Some of his cousins are our age and have little kids as well. We are looking forward to getting to know everyone again. Here are some pictures of our condo as well. Hope everyone is enjoying our story.
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Thursday, July 15, 2010
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Addison just learned to sit up and balance on her own!
Uncle Justin and Charlie next to the Cumberland River
Getting settled in & keeping busy...
BUSY BUSY BUSY!! We spent most of the day unpacking and thank goodness because we are unpacked! It feels good to finally get settled in. For those who don't know, we are living in a nice spacious condo with Ernie & Janette (Scott's parents) and most of our stuff is in storage. So before you get too impressed I really only had to unpack the essentials for us 4. Now don't get me wrong, it was a lot. Our Volvo and Truck were FULL!!
Yesterday we went cruising all over downtown Nashville and Lebanon. We started the morning looking for Starbucks and ended up at Java Joe's. That's all I'm going to say about that. Downtown Lebanon is a pretty cool square. Nothing like I have seen before and I really enjoyed the look and feel. We popped into the chamber of commerce where Janette works and admired some lovely artwork from Nat Haston (my brother in law). I think he must be famous here! If I'm not hearing about him on the radio his art is staring me in the face! I must give the boy props as hard of a time he gives me, the man is very talented on many levels. After we soaked up the not so local artist we headed to Nashville. That was great! It was wonderful to spend time with Justin... And we both agreed that we now understand 'but its a dry heat'! We grew up in 29 Palms so this humidity in ridiculous!! We were walking around Nashville in the rain, in shorts and flip flops! And, we weren't cold. Now this weather is something else!! It sure is hard for me to realize that I can be out in the rain and not cold! Funny concept for this So Cal Gal!!
Yesterday we went cruising all over downtown Nashville and Lebanon. We started the morning looking for Starbucks and ended up at Java Joe's. That's all I'm going to say about that. Downtown Lebanon is a pretty cool square. Nothing like I have seen before and I really enjoyed the look and feel. We popped into the chamber of commerce where Janette works and admired some lovely artwork from Nat Haston (my brother in law). I think he must be famous here! If I'm not hearing about him on the radio his art is staring me in the face! I must give the boy props as hard of a time he gives me, the man is very talented on many levels. After we soaked up the not so local artist we headed to Nashville. That was great! It was wonderful to spend time with Justin... And we both agreed that we now understand 'but its a dry heat'! We grew up in 29 Palms so this humidity in ridiculous!! We were walking around Nashville in the rain, in shorts and flip flops! And, we weren't cold. Now this weather is something else!! It sure is hard for me to realize that I can be out in the rain and not cold! Funny concept for this So Cal Gal!!
Last night I ventured out with Janette, we went to a chamber mixer. I had a great time as I met several good people and some great contacts that I think will help me get a job. I spoke with a hiring manager at Cumberland University and we hit it off so well. I have an appointment to meet with her the first of August. Also, I made a new friend. Her name is Maggie and we really hit it off. We have so much in common and I'm hoping we will really get to know each other.
It was a little tough waking up this morning and facing Tennessee straight in the face. I was starving because I didn't eat dinner last night. We had went to a chicken place for dinner and anyone who knows me, knows I don't eat chicken. So we went grocery shopping this morning and it started to sink in that I wasn't on vacation. I of course got sad and needed to hear hey snap out of it! 'Its only been 1 day'! Yes, I am that much of a dork!! On a positive I had a phone interview this morning that went really well and I let the 2 companies that are interested in interviewing me that I am finally here and ready. Hopefully I will have a couple interviews next week. It sure would be nice if I had some choices! I also have another contact I will give a call on tomorrow. Both companies are in Nashville but there is a cool train that I could take from. Lebanon to Nashville. Now I've never road public transportation before but hey I'm all about trying new things! On Monday I tried a brand new salad dressing.
Charlie and Addison are doing well. Addison is progressing right along. Today she was sitting all by herself! She is also getting her 1st tooth. She didn't sleep too well last night, but I'm sure that is just part of the transition. Charlie is doing great! She went to an awesome park today! The whole park is surrounded by beautiful green trees and the whole area is just a fantastic view. There is a nice path too where I plan on trying for my daily runs! Well exercise that is! Ha! The play area is fantastic and there is a water play area too! She had a blast! Then she went swimming with her daddy while I cooked dinner. She is so happy to be spending time with her Nana and Papa. I know she misses her California family as she pretended to call Uncle Nat, Auntie Jennifer & Maryam. She is so funny! She told Maryam about the park, Jennifer that she was scared to swim and Nat that she ate watermelon!
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Monday, July 12, 2010
Music City, USA
We have arrived in Nashville, TN! The trip was smooth. Justin was a great help and awesome company. We had wonderful conversation and talked the whole way. Addison was a little fussy from Ontario to Phoenix but was perfect the rest of the way.
I can't deny it was tough saying goodbye to my parents and I don't think it has sunk in that they won't be a quick car ride away, but to quote my brother in law 'its a short plane ride.'
Charlie is so happy to see her daddy she ran to him. Which was great since during take off she kept saying 'here I come daddy!' It feels so great to be here, hot & humid!! As a true Californian I have my sweatshirt in case it 'cooled off at night'... Uh its in the trunk!!
The ride to Lebanon is beautiful and green... I'm so excited to be here and plan on eating at Cracker Barrel in a few. Justin flies back tomorrow and we plan on having lunch in downtown Nashville. Look out!!
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I can't deny it was tough saying goodbye to my parents and I don't think it has sunk in that they won't be a quick car ride away, but to quote my brother in law 'its a short plane ride.'
Charlie is so happy to see her daddy she ran to him. Which was great since during take off she kept saying 'here I come daddy!' It feels so great to be here, hot & humid!! As a true Californian I have my sweatshirt in case it 'cooled off at night'... Uh its in the trunk!!
The ride to Lebanon is beautiful and green... I'm so excited to be here and plan on eating at Cracker Barrel in a few. Justin flies back tomorrow and we plan on having lunch in downtown Nashville. Look out!!
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Our last day in 29 Palms, California
Can I just start with... I promise I'll get better at this!!
I grew up in 29 Palms... I haven't lived here since 1999 and I am a little sad to be leaving in the morning. We spent the day together as a family. From when I woke up this morning, I went on a coffee run for me and my sister. Which was interesting because she wanted a mocha frape from McDonald's, is that coffee? LOL! As I stepped outside I was overwhelmed by the scent of rain. A smell like no other. When it rains in the desert you always know it is coming before you ever feel water from this amazing smell. I thought it was a perfect way to start the day. I feel lucky I was able to enjoy that smell, one last time before I head south.
It was definitely a day of the cousins. We spent the morning at Auntie Jennifer's house and Jax and Addison played together on the floor, keeping each other company. One will never know what they were saying, but it was fun to watch. Addison would kick Jax, and Jax would eat Addison's toes. Charlie and Maryam would run back and fourth from Maryam's room to the living room, going from one toy to the next. In a few hours they were going to go to the movies to see, as Charlie would say "the talking dogs" I honestly have no idea the name of the movie. Jax, Maryam, Charlie, Yaya, Uncle Brett and Auntie Jennifer headed off to the movies while I stayed home with Addison, finished laundry and PACKED! Packing is where it hit me that I was going to be waking up and heading straight to the airport in the morning. Don't get me wrong, I am excited about this new "era" as my brother in law Nat would say, but I am sad to leave behind my family. Packing was difficult. Almost as if this was the first time I actually thought about leaving. I know that I am moving, but have I really thought about leaving? The house was suddenly quiet as everyone darted off to the movie theater. At this point Addison went down for her nap rather quickly. (it's usually easier for her to nap while Charlie is out)So I used this time to pack and think. I thought about a lot of things, that would probably bore you, but here are a few examples: bugs! Will I really wear "OFF" everyday, like perfume? Humidity! What will my hair look like? Will I need to get new hair products? Flip Flops? Do I trade them in for a pair of boots? or is that just a winter thing? Time Change? Will I reset my watch or just remember to count 2 hours ahead. (no I don't know how to do my watch, Yes I will have to ask someone to do it for me)... This is what's going through my head as my nerves set in. When suddenly I hear my little girl... They are all home! Yeah! Charlie is happy to be home. We just sat in the living room as a family and observed the kids play. It was amazing. My nerves went away. I played "ring around the roses" with Maryam and Charlie and watched them dance to the music on TV. Listened to Jax and Addison moan and cue. It was fun. Of course there was the typical adult shouting of words like, "no", "stop doing that" and the classic "you'll get a time out", however it was fun!
After the kids were in bed I decided to head over to Jennifer's to spend some quality time with her and Brett. I had been trying to get over there all week, but with 2 trips to the ER I hadn't managed to make it yet. The desert night was in full bloom. I could see every star in the sky. The sky was so lit up, I didn't feel like I was in the dark. Absolutely amazing. We stood outside for hours and talked, rehashed old stories, told some new ones and just enjoyed good company. It was nice to just be. I was not only with my sister, I was with someone who knows me. Someone who knows me and still loves me. There are no words to express the joy in heart after the time we spend together. My sister has taught me many things over the years, both directly and indirectly and tonight she reminded me and encouraged me to just let go and jump. She gives me strength like no other. My nerves are gone. I am not sad, I am excited, and even though I will and believe I always will "follow the rules" tonight I am adventurous.
Scott and Nat made it to Lebanon, TN around 6:30 Pacific time, I am grateful they had a safe trip. I am also happy they are there a day before me, hoping I will feel a little settled when I get there as I expect them to unpack! Ha! I can not wait to board that plane tomorrow and arrive in Nashville and be with my family. I will proudly hold Scott's hand and take this leap. I believe in my whole heart this is going to be a great adventure and although I know life is challenging, and these past years have been difficult, there is no one else I would want to have pick me up and start a new journey with. This California girl tomorrow will be bedding down in Tennessee... let the experiment begin.
I grew up in 29 Palms... I haven't lived here since 1999 and I am a little sad to be leaving in the morning. We spent the day together as a family. From when I woke up this morning, I went on a coffee run for me and my sister. Which was interesting because she wanted a mocha frape from McDonald's, is that coffee? LOL! As I stepped outside I was overwhelmed by the scent of rain. A smell like no other. When it rains in the desert you always know it is coming before you ever feel water from this amazing smell. I thought it was a perfect way to start the day. I feel lucky I was able to enjoy that smell, one last time before I head south.
It was definitely a day of the cousins. We spent the morning at Auntie Jennifer's house and Jax and Addison played together on the floor, keeping each other company. One will never know what they were saying, but it was fun to watch. Addison would kick Jax, and Jax would eat Addison's toes. Charlie and Maryam would run back and fourth from Maryam's room to the living room, going from one toy to the next. In a few hours they were going to go to the movies to see, as Charlie would say "the talking dogs" I honestly have no idea the name of the movie. Jax, Maryam, Charlie, Yaya, Uncle Brett and Auntie Jennifer headed off to the movies while I stayed home with Addison, finished laundry and PACKED! Packing is where it hit me that I was going to be waking up and heading straight to the airport in the morning. Don't get me wrong, I am excited about this new "era" as my brother in law Nat would say, but I am sad to leave behind my family. Packing was difficult. Almost as if this was the first time I actually thought about leaving. I know that I am moving, but have I really thought about leaving? The house was suddenly quiet as everyone darted off to the movie theater. At this point Addison went down for her nap rather quickly. (it's usually easier for her to nap while Charlie is out)So I used this time to pack and think. I thought about a lot of things, that would probably bore you, but here are a few examples: bugs! Will I really wear "OFF" everyday, like perfume? Humidity! What will my hair look like? Will I need to get new hair products? Flip Flops? Do I trade them in for a pair of boots? or is that just a winter thing? Time Change? Will I reset my watch or just remember to count 2 hours ahead. (no I don't know how to do my watch, Yes I will have to ask someone to do it for me)... This is what's going through my head as my nerves set in. When suddenly I hear my little girl... They are all home! Yeah! Charlie is happy to be home. We just sat in the living room as a family and observed the kids play. It was amazing. My nerves went away. I played "ring around the roses" with Maryam and Charlie and watched them dance to the music on TV. Listened to Jax and Addison moan and cue. It was fun. Of course there was the typical adult shouting of words like, "no", "stop doing that" and the classic "you'll get a time out", however it was fun!
After the kids were in bed I decided to head over to Jennifer's to spend some quality time with her and Brett. I had been trying to get over there all week, but with 2 trips to the ER I hadn't managed to make it yet. The desert night was in full bloom. I could see every star in the sky. The sky was so lit up, I didn't feel like I was in the dark. Absolutely amazing. We stood outside for hours and talked, rehashed old stories, told some new ones and just enjoyed good company. It was nice to just be. I was not only with my sister, I was with someone who knows me. Someone who knows me and still loves me. There are no words to express the joy in heart after the time we spend together. My sister has taught me many things over the years, both directly and indirectly and tonight she reminded me and encouraged me to just let go and jump. She gives me strength like no other. My nerves are gone. I am not sad, I am excited, and even though I will and believe I always will "follow the rules" tonight I am adventurous.
Scott and Nat made it to Lebanon, TN around 6:30 Pacific time, I am grateful they had a safe trip. I am also happy they are there a day before me, hoping I will feel a little settled when I get there as I expect them to unpack! Ha! I can not wait to board that plane tomorrow and arrive in Nashville and be with my family. I will proudly hold Scott's hand and take this leap. I believe in my whole heart this is going to be a great adventure and although I know life is challenging, and these past years have been difficult, there is no one else I would want to have pick me up and start a new journey with. This California girl tomorrow will be bedding down in Tennessee... let the experiment begin.
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Local color, from the Farmers Market to the ER!
Today was a fantastic day! We got up this morning and went out to breakfast at a restaurant that none of us had been to before. This is great because I am deathly afraid of trying new things, but since I'm moving across country in a few days, I figure this might be something to work on! After our breakfast adventure/mild accomplishment Charlie, Addison, Yaya and myself went to the Farmers Market in downtown Joshua Tree. I LOVE Farmers Markets and we had a blast. We picked up fresh strawberries, cherries and cantaloupe. I had a wonderful conversation with a local artist who had some of the most amazing portraits of Joshua Tree National Park that I have ever seen. I was so impressed and it inspired me to check out the Twentynine Palms Art Gallery on our way home. We also went into the local souvenir shops, which are always great because there was so much local artistry. It was fun to do things I had never done before and be able to spend that time with my Mom made it even more precious. Several times through out the day, I kept thinking to myself how much fun I was having. It truly was an awesome way to spend my last Saturday in the desert.
As I have been talking to Charlie about this Tennessee adventure of course I have had to mention the BIG plane ride we are about to embark on. So today we went to the Dollar store, where I gave her, her very own shopping cart and told her to shop! She was picking out toys for her backpack to take on the trip. She was so cute with what she wanted to bring. She picked out stickers, sticker books, color books, post-cards to write her cousin, flashcards, and crayons. Oh and of course a candy bracelet with a matching necklace. (I might hide that one) She even put her basket on the conveyor belt when it was time to check out. So now she is all set with a full princess backpack to sport on the plane.
Scott has been texting each time he crosses into a new state and I run and get Charlie, pull out the road atlas and show her where her daddy is. It was so cute tonight after I showed her where her daddy had driven to, she said "lets go home" I was shocked and said "what?" "I want to go to my new home. I'm excited. Lets go today!" This felt so good to hear, because it has been so hard for her to understand. We left our house on June 30 and haven't been back, but talk about moving. We have been visiting Scott's brother and now my parents. So it's been an adjustment for sure. Meanwhile daddy is still driving across country! He started the day in New Mexico and ended the night in Arkansas. He crossed through, Texas and Oklahoma! BIG day for him. He and his brother are exhausted. He assured me that Smokey and Pretzel are doing okay too, but they are all tired.
The climax of the night had to be going to the ER. The strangest thing happened tonight. Charlie Mae got hurt. I am not sure how, and anyone who knows her, knows she falls ALL THE TIME. We most often hear her say "I'm okay!" Well not tonight. Just a few minutes before 8 it was "NO I'M NOT OKAY!" She was sitting on the couch when all of a sudden she started to cry. I tried to console her and figure out what happened, but was not successful. I followed my instincts and took her to the ER. She was very brave and curious. She asked everyone a million questions. And bless her little heart she said "cheese" at the x-ray camera and then for the last picture she puckered her lips and blew that "special camera" a kiss! My little princess is going to be fine, thank God. She is wearing a fiberglass cast to keep her arm movement limited. She has to wear the cast until she begins to move her arm on her own. The Dr believes she pulled her Elbow head out of the joint, but it is back in place now. Doing this caused some strain on the muscles going to the joints. They gave her some Motrin for the pain and she took it like a champ. This is Charlie Mae's first trip to the ER and I hope it is our last. It was very hard with out her daddy there, but I somehow managed to stay calm. It was very tough on me to see my daughter there in that hospital bed, very overwhelming. I was worried if I did the right thing by bringing her, but I kept telling myself better safe than sorry. Plus, I know her and she usually can "shake it off." I can honestly say she went to the ER tonight because I decided she needed to go. Anyone who knows me can say that is an accomplishment as well. I made a quick decision on my own! In the end, I'm glad I took her and I'm thankful she is ok. I am curious, however as to what she is going to say when she wakes up and sees that cast!
As I have been talking to Charlie about this Tennessee adventure of course I have had to mention the BIG plane ride we are about to embark on. So today we went to the Dollar store, where I gave her, her very own shopping cart and told her to shop! She was picking out toys for her backpack to take on the trip. She was so cute with what she wanted to bring. She picked out stickers, sticker books, color books, post-cards to write her cousin, flashcards, and crayons. Oh and of course a candy bracelet with a matching necklace. (I might hide that one) She even put her basket on the conveyor belt when it was time to check out. So now she is all set with a full princess backpack to sport on the plane.
Scott has been texting each time he crosses into a new state and I run and get Charlie, pull out the road atlas and show her where her daddy is. It was so cute tonight after I showed her where her daddy had driven to, she said "lets go home" I was shocked and said "what?" "I want to go to my new home. I'm excited. Lets go today!" This felt so good to hear, because it has been so hard for her to understand. We left our house on June 30 and haven't been back, but talk about moving. We have been visiting Scott's brother and now my parents. So it's been an adjustment for sure. Meanwhile daddy is still driving across country! He started the day in New Mexico and ended the night in Arkansas. He crossed through, Texas and Oklahoma! BIG day for him. He and his brother are exhausted. He assured me that Smokey and Pretzel are doing okay too, but they are all tired.
The climax of the night had to be going to the ER. The strangest thing happened tonight. Charlie Mae got hurt. I am not sure how, and anyone who knows her, knows she falls ALL THE TIME. We most often hear her say "I'm okay!" Well not tonight. Just a few minutes before 8 it was "NO I'M NOT OKAY!" She was sitting on the couch when all of a sudden she started to cry. I tried to console her and figure out what happened, but was not successful. I followed my instincts and took her to the ER. She was very brave and curious. She asked everyone a million questions. And bless her little heart she said "cheese" at the x-ray camera and then for the last picture she puckered her lips and blew that "special camera" a kiss! My little princess is going to be fine, thank God. She is wearing a fiberglass cast to keep her arm movement limited. She has to wear the cast until she begins to move her arm on her own. The Dr believes she pulled her Elbow head out of the joint, but it is back in place now. Doing this caused some strain on the muscles going to the joints. They gave her some Motrin for the pain and she took it like a champ. This is Charlie Mae's first trip to the ER and I hope it is our last. It was very hard with out her daddy there, but I somehow managed to stay calm. It was very tough on me to see my daughter there in that hospital bed, very overwhelming. I was worried if I did the right thing by bringing her, but I kept telling myself better safe than sorry. Plus, I know her and she usually can "shake it off." I can honestly say she went to the ER tonight because I decided she needed to go. Anyone who knows me can say that is an accomplishment as well. I made a quick decision on my own! In the end, I'm glad I took her and I'm thankful she is ok. I am curious, however as to what she is going to say when she wakes up and sees that cast!
Saturday, July 10, 2010
Heading back to 29 Palms. Charlie and Addison pose!
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